Romancing Your Moon Signs

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Konstantin Lucas

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Arrow Publications, LLC

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CONTENTS

Introduction

Moon in Aries

Moon In Taurus

Moon In Gemini

Moon In Cancer

Moon In Leo

Moon In Virgo

Moon In Libra

Moon In Scorpio

Moon In Sagittarius

Moon in Capricorn

Moon In Aquarius

Moon In Pisces

About the Author

Introduction

Astrology as most people know it tends to focus on sun signs, which is what horoscopes are based on. In fact, a full natal chart is completely unique and no two people have the same chart unless they were born at the exact same spot at the exact same moment. Even twins are born far enough apart to have very strong differences in their charts.

Your sun sign represents your most outward personality and is considered the most important point in your chart. The next layer in a person’s personality would be the moon sign. It lays the foundation upon which all your inner emotional nature is built. It says more about whom you are deep down in side. There are a number of good websites and books available to determine your moon sign. You will need to know your time of birth.

Of course, our emotional sides are full of vulnerabilities, so the qualities of the moon sign remain more hidden. These are the parts of you that close friends and lovers come to know. You may have dated two men of the same sign only to find them entirely different. It’s possible they had entirely different moon signs.

For example, Taurus men tend to be a bit dull. They seek security and assurance over adventure and spontaneity. On the surface, you will find a very dependable but too stubborn and predictable man for many women’s tastes. Though, if this Taurus has a moon in Sagittarius, he will surprise you as you get to know him. You will discover this other side of him that actually seeks adventure, has an inner optimism, and tends toward cheerfulness.

Like the moon itself, there is a dark side to each moon sign. This same Taurus male with his moon in Sagittarius will only appear to seek security and dependability on the surface. His dark inner side is reckless, extravagant, and has an independence that makes commitment difficult. He may settle down to one lover for his entire life, but there will always be this side yearning to break free.

You also have a moon sign with these light and dark sides. In this book, we will take a look at how your moon sign influences who you are deep down inside and how this affects your relationships. You can also use these columns to gain some insight into the motivations—some beautiful, some frightening—of yourself and your partners in much more detail than sun signs can provide.

Moon in Aries

Your Light Side

The zodiac’s first sign, Aries, is largely concerned with its own needs. It is often called the selfish sign. But its energy is greater than any other sign’s. Though me-centered, the energy radiates so strongly from this sign that others benefit from its power.

In the sign of Aries, the moon glows a bit brighter and some of its gloomier influences are tempered. Women with their moon in Aries have an underlying energy that may seem limitless. They are quick with new ideas, confident in the face of a new challenge, and usually see the best side of even the worst situation.

Because of their positive outlook, people with their moon in Aries are usually quite social. They are fun to be around and are the first choice when a friend needs cheering up. And they can easily become the life of the party with their energetic optimism.

Your Dark Side

Aries is not a sign that sees other’s points of view easily. When the moon’s influence shines through this sign, this me-centered quality can have some negative effects. The sunny disposition clouds over whenever the lunar Arian feels slighted. It’s not that she grows emotional. Her style when wounded is to throw a fit rather than sit down and sob. A short temper is common with women born under this sign.

She can also be very opinionated. The energy that lifts the spirits of those around her doesn’t yield when energy tries to flow in the other direction. It bestows on her the power to make a quick decision, but not the humility to listen to another’s advice. This also creates a lot of imagined wounds, as she is not one to easily hear another’s side of the story.

Your Romantic Side

These shortcomings aside, Aries has another quality that makes this a good position for a moon sign. Unlike complicated Gemini, mysterious Scorpio, or rigid Capricorn, Aries is simple, straightforward, and accepting of change. Women with their moon in Aries have straight-to-the-point needs and desires. She knows what they are and how she’s going to get them. This makes the search for the right lover much easier.

The courage of this sign will also lead her to take risks. Some people let romantic opportunities pass them by and suffer through much loneliness while shielding themselves from a broken heart. Not the lunar Arian. She will impulsively seize the moment without worrying about future heartbreak. While heartbreak may be the result and she may suffer many failed relationships, she will recover quickly. And her many attempts will increase her odds of eventual success, if she does not already enjoy it.

While this position of the moon has its shortcomings as all moon signs do, the woman with her moon in Aries is blessed with qualities of strength and confident resolve that will make her an ideal partner. And she has what it takes to find the right man for her and know when she’s found him.

Moon In Taurus

Your Light Side

Following the zodiac’s stellar start with fiery, impulsive Aries, things come to a screeching halt. Like an older woman with the wisdom to make more careful choices for a better future, Taurus is a much more cautious sign, one concerned primarily with security. Above all, this sign is known for its steadiness and practicality. And that has advantages and disadvantages.

The moon is the planet of your emotions, which is not a world of predictability. There is no simple equation from which any answer can spring. It is erratic and mysterious. The steadiness of Taurus helps temper the more unfavorable characteristics of the moon, and gives its errant qualities more direction. In this position, the moon is said to be exalted. Its shortcomings are mitigated, and its strengths more enhanced than in other positions.

Decisions based purely on emotion can bring about some of the most self-defeating consequences of all. When the moon shines through Taurus, decisions are made carefully over a long period of time. All possibilities are considered and every pro and con carefully weighed. This gives the lunar Taurians insight that makes them tenacious and even a bit clairvoyant. It’s not so much they actually see into the future, but they channel emotional distractions into a clarity that allows them to see things others would miss.

Your Dark Side

While decisions are made upon careful consideration of all possible outcomes, that means there’s nothing anyone can say that’s going to change a lunar Taurian’s mind once it’s made up. Wherever Taurus is found in a chart, there is stubbornness. And when it’s a stubborn moon, the emotional rigidity can be disadvantageous.

All the time spent in consideration is also time when opportunities are lost. The lunar Taurian woman can be overly cautious. While a decision is being considered, action is lost. She simply is not moving. Depending on other factors, lunar Taurians often end up in dissatisfying, if comfortable careers simply because security matters more to them than greater opportunity.

Your Romantic Side

And so both these sides play out the same way when it comes to matters of the heart. This woman does not settle down with someone she met just last week or even last month. The right man for her is the one who’s patient and has little to hide. For a Taurian spends much longer than most scrutinizing a potential soul mate in very fine detail and pondering all aspects of a future life together.

And finally, if she decides that the future with this man will offer the absolute security she seeks, he is pretty much stuck with her. On one hand, just as she’ll settle for the boring job for its security, she may stay in an unhappy, but predictable marriage when others will flee. But this can mean she will take the time to make things work where others will have long given up. This also means that, where others will throw away something good for all the wrong reasons, she will not. When she gives away her heart, it’s forever. So, for this reason, lunar Taurians make ideal wives.

Moon In Gemini

Your Light Side

Zodiac’s intellectual sign shows up at the perfect moment. After Aries’s dynamic energy and Taurus’s committed stability, it’s time to start asking a few questions. Gemini’s mental qualities temper the moon’s mysterious emotional characteristics. There is a certain mental-emotional duality with a lunar Gemini. She has an emotional need to be mentally stimulated. And when she finds that in her life, she is energetic and charming. When she’s placed in an environment of boredom and routine, however, the moon’s emotional nature begins to shine more brightly. And this girl’s otherwise cheerful mood goes quickly sour. 

Lunar Geminis are not necessarily unemotional, but their hearts speak much more clearly through their minds. This gives them incisiveness that can make them appear highly confident, even when they aren’t. Whereas others’ judgments are clouded or delayed by emotions, the lunar Gemini can put those distractions aside to see a situation more clearly. With or without a high IQ, she will come across as brilliant.

Your Dark Side

Her ability to sort through information quickly also has the effect of making her highly impressionable. When a situation changes, she reassesses and forms a new opinion—there’s no staying power with her. This tends to make her opinions unreliable, because they are just what she feels right at the moment. Two minutes later, she’s got a whole new outlook. Her opinions are quick, but they are quite superficial.

That restless need for mental stimulation can make her impatient and demanding when stimulation doesn’t come. And this can lead to a certain recklessness when it comes to organization—she seems to thrive on disorder. As she gets older, a lunar Gemini can overcome these tendencies. But in youth, they can be the source of many troubles.

Your Romantic Side

Chances are she’s sewn a lot of wild oats in her past. Her restless spirit leads her into many beds before she settles down. So, the right kind of guy for her is one who’s secure enough to accept that or wise enough not to ask about her past. If he’s to be the final destination for this wanderer, though, he’ll have to be very creative sexually. If things get routine, especially in bed, she’ll begin to pout and be on her way.

If he can get her to stick around, she is a fascinating lover with much to talk about. She will be most happy with a man who has extraordinary conversational skills. They’re going to be married with children before this gal is going to share a single uncomfortable silence with her man. He must also be witty and sociable. She’s not the “quiet night alone” type.

The absolute ideal man for her is the one who has qualities of tenacity and practicality. She’s quite independent and will resent any attempt to dominate her. But her flighty mind makes her a bit frivolous at times. If he can give her some steadiness without forcing decisions upon her, she’ll not only be grateful, she’ll be in love.

Moon In Cancer

Your Light Side

When your moon is in Cancer, it’s said to be in its home position. This basically means that the qualities of the moon come through most strongly. Cancer is one of those super-sensitive signs. The Lunar Cancerian is highly impressionable, filtering every second of her life through her heart and storing her reactions and attitudes inside an eerily photographic memory.

These memories are recalled through emotional associations. As such, this woman has sudden flashes of memory that are only related to the moment in personal ways. Her vulnerable nature makes her careful not to show her feelings outwardly. Those who get to know her are often surprised to find this emotional side, because she can seem so undemonstrative much of the time.

When all these characteristics are combined, her true power becomes apparent. Collecting impressions of the world leads to an intense creativity and insight when the larger picture comes into focus. Many great artists and writers had their moon in this position. She often solves seemingly impossible situations through sudden insights. She also develops an intuition about people that results in an uncanny ability to get what she wants from people.

Your Dark Side

Having your moon in its home position also means that the shortcomings of Cancer have few mitigating factors. Her tendency to collect impressions also means that she can let negative emotions build up, resulting in days when it’s best just to stay away. Quietly she’ll sink into self-pity, and her moods will swing from one side to the other. Her tenacity and insight, though, shine as wisdom, which draws people to her. So, in her darker moments, they try to reach her, and she wants none of it. This makes her very difficult to understand.

This easily wounded girl can build up a lot of defenses, as well, which can manifest as a defensive, forceful personality that in some cases, causes people to stay at arm’s length. For her lighter side to illuminate her darker moments, she needs to learn to be more trusting and let go of hurtful memories.

Your Romantic Side

This is not a girl who wants to be alone, despite anything she may tell herself. While she may harbor resentments for failed relationships in the past, she simply cannot achieve any sense of completeness without a solid companion in her life. Her creative and intuitive qualities bestow on her a romantic tendency unmatched in moon signs, so it’s not hard for her to find a mate if she’s open to finding one.

The perfect guy for her is, above all else, cheerful. He’s got to be the one to make her laugh when she’s down and bring a bit of sun to her cloudy day. He must also be supremely loyal. She’s the possessive type, and so wandering eyes will cancel the deal. Only a deep, committed love will do for her. She can’t truly open her heart without that kind of security. Her most endearing trait is that she returns all the loyalty she demands. Her sensitivity makes her very aware of her partner’s feelings. So, if he’s in for the long term, she’ll never let him down.

Moon In Leo

Your Light Side

Leo is the most outgoing sign in the Zodiac. It is exuberant, creative and highly physical. Where you find Leo in a chart, positive and negative characteristics shine more brightly. So, Leo helps smooth out some out some of the moon's cratered surface and makes it glow a bit brighter.

Yet that glow comes from someplace beneath the surface in the moon's mysterious layers, giving you, as a Leo, a certain je ne sais quoi. You're charming, witty and alluring for reasons no one can quite put a finger on. But most would agree, it's just hard not to be attracted to you. The downside of this is that lunar Leos often draw unwanted suitors and have to go to great lengths to shake loose men who can't take a hint.

This inner glow has a way of illuminating all around you. Your friends will turn to you when they're down, because you're the one who'll say that right thing to lift their spirits. At best, you'll have a witty joke that at least gets their mind off troubles for a while.

Your Dark Side

Unfortunately, though, when it's your turn to sulk, the negative characteristics of the moon shine just as brightly. The moon's emotional qualities combined with Leo's penchant for extroversion lead to a lot of drama on stormy days. And you have a tendency to spread the storm, so to speak. Fortunately, you can usually bounce back quickly from a setback. Otherwise, you run the risk of pushing people away.

A Leo's other shortcoming is vanity, which she denies vehemently. But this shortcoming is not likely to change in your lifetime. All those men doting on you will constantly reflect your own self-image, no matter how inflated. The good news is that, dazzled by your charm, the men who notice this trait will largely see it as an endearing imperfection.

Your Romantic Side

Leo is a very physical sign, so the man who wins you over will have to know what he's doing in the bedroom. For you, the separation of emotional satisfaction from physical satisfaction is impossible. Even years down the road, he can expect that you won't tolerate a sexless relationship.

This can also lead a Leo to confuse love and lust. A man with the proper skills in the bedroom may not have the qualities that make for the best partner, and you may be blind to this if he has you screaming in bed. You need to be careful to consider that there's more to a man than his... well, you know.

Lunar Leos do not need to seek out the right man for them. That inner glow will have the guys lined up awaiting their chance. All you need to do is sort through them until you find the right one.

Moon In Virgo

Your Light Side

With Virgo, the zodiac takes a serious, intellectual and critical self-reflection turn. Being the sign that follows Leo—known for its unabashed self-aggrandizement—it would seem a good time to slow down and take an analytical approach to self-improvement.

When your moon shines through the sign of Virgo, the emotional side of your personality expresses itself much more intellectually. In today’s world, you exemplify some of the more treasured qualities of the modern woman. You take a very practical approach to the emotional side of your life. This makes you cool under pressure and better able to cope with the emotional hang-ups that still drag some women down. As such, you excel at business and are very successful.

This seriousness also makes you an excellent planner. Your motivation is your deep emotional need for security. You prefer to prevent emotional upsets before you encounter them. So, for the career woman, Virgo is a great place to find your moon.

Your Dark Side

You don’t really have a dark side as much as you may let your qualities run amok to the point they are no longer advantageous. Most women today want traditional, satisfying relationships at home on top of their career. And so raising a family becomes a part of that equation. The world of business demands an unemotional approach, which is good for your career, but this will not serve a family well.

The key, then, to drawing upon your strengths of this moon sign is to recognize that there’s a difference between being in control of your emotions and avoiding them altogether. A successful relationship with your husband and children will require some emotional conflict. Acknowledging those conflicts first and then drawing on your emotional strength to resolve them will make you a success at home, as well in your career.

Your Romantic Side

As a lunar Virgo, you are most comfortable in a traditional relationship, as it serves the need for security and predictability that you crave. Depending on your sun sign and other factors in your chart, you will probably have few partners in your life. This may be the result of a harmless tendency to shun reckless adventure in favor of long-term stability. But in some cases, you so fear the vulnerability of being alone that you stay in bad relationships long after it’s time to get out.

Be careful not to pursue your long-term comfort with the adventurous types. There is this tendency in Lunar Virgos, because such men, with their upbeat outlook, seem to offer an escape for your worries. But your need for predictability will soon overshadow the relationship. Feeling tied down, he will be out the door. And you’ll be left feeling even more vulnerable than before.

You are positioned well for a lifetime of happiness. It just requires a careful utilization of your strengths and an honest assessment of your emotional needs. With that, your moon in Virgo will become a source of strength, guiding you to a satisfying sense of success in all areas of your life.

Moon In Libra

Your Light Side

Libra is a sign filled with an intellectual need for balance and beauty. When your moon shines through Libra, you develop emotional needs for these qualities, not just in yourself, but also in those around you.

Your most likable trait is your social charm. You’re not an active attention-getter, though you will often find yourself at the center of it. Your charisma flows from you without effort of intent. You simply have a way of finding beauty in yourself and others, which makes you a fantastic conversationalist.

Your appreciation of art gives you great taste in music, fashion, and decorations. Guests always compliment your home, and friends always seek your advice on clothes and hair. You always seem to know just what someone or someplace needs to make its aesthetic qualities shine.

Your Dark Side

Unfortunately your desire for beauty can run amok. While you can find beauty in so much or create it if lacking, its pursuit can become obsessive. Life is not always beautiful, and sometimes its challenges and conflicts are ugly. When Lunar Libra falls to the dark side, denial can become self-destructive. Sometimes self-indulgence rules over rational restraint in your desperate attempt to avoid anything unpleasant.

Balance is also key to this sign, which does create an appreciation for others. On the dark side, it can create an inability to deal with conflict and a dependence on your partner. Problems within a relationship can sink beneath the surface of a carefully constructed veneer of charm and romance. These problems fester and eventually overwhelm a love that could otherwise be saved.

The trick to shedding light on the dark side of a Libra moon is to recognize that love does not demand perfection. That is its beauty. Resolving conflicts and overcoming challenges in a relationship can be a beautiful experience, and there’s no reason for you to fear it.

Your Romantic Side

An air sign, Libra is much more intellectual than emotional. Depending on other factors in a chart, the steamy passion in a relationship is not as important to you as having a partner with whom you communicate well. He must be smart, funny, and attractive.

The right man for you should also have an appreciation for art and music. If he’s the homebody type, regardless of other qualities, he will probably never be right for you. Your nature demands an active social life, surrounded by others. The quiet, romantic dinner every now and again can be a nice touch, but it better include candlelight and a luxurious meal he prepares masterfully.

Sex for a Lunar Libra again is going to be heavy on the aesthetics. You’re not the reserved type at all. You’re more than willing to explore uncharted waters. But rather than a raw display of kinky acts, you’re much more attracted to a sexy rendezvous beneath satin sheets while wearing lacy lingerie.

If you have a man with taste, charm, intelligence, and an appreciation of aesthetics in all things he does for you, then most everything else will fall easily into place in the relationship. Without those qualities, you will probably always sense something is missing.

Moon In Scorpio

Your Light Side

Scorpio is a very emotional sign, and the moon is a strong emotional force in your chart. Put these two together, and there’s quite the chain reaction. So, whether or not your light side burns brightly depends on your how wisely you handle those emotions.

On one hand, you have great deal of reticence, a mark of your self-control. This makes you skilled at business, because when everyone else is in a panic, you remain calm. When there’s a crisis, friends and bosses call you first. You can be an excellent decision maker.

You are also powerfully intuitive. Depending on other factors, this intuition seems clairvoyant at times. At the very least, you have the ability to recognize others’ motivations, often to a greater degree than they do. This makes you a tenacious negotiator, and in a career where that’s an asset, you will find much success.

Your Dark Side

All that self-control has a downside. While your powers of observation penetrate deep into the hearts of others, you are rarely able to turn that into yourself. You may fool others, but beneath that cool veneer is a lot of hurt. And this is why this moon sign is so very troubled.

Jealousy, grudges and resentments rage beneath the surface. You are a powerful person, and often you use that power to suppress all that. So, you become motivated by forces you can’t bring yourself to admit exist. Rather than face those emotions and change from within, you tend to dominate and try to control others.

It all comes down to your fear of being vulnerable, losing control and being swept away by all that emotion. The wise Lunar Scorpio will recognize that it takes far more power to acknowledge all those forces and tame them. If you’re powerful enough to do that, you’ve no reason to feel so vulnerable. Learn to trust yourself and your strengths will eclipse these issues.

While these difficulties may be greater than many other signs, your potential is also greater. If you overcome your fears of your own emotional torrents, they become a powerful asset. And this will take you to heights of sagacity few ever know.

Your Romantic Side

Scorpio is also a very sexual sign. There are others, but Scorpio’s sexuality is very emotional. That gives you a sexual mystique that draws lovers to you like magnets. If you have exotic tastes and pursue them, they will most often contain an element of emotional release. A session of domination roleplay, for instance, will be more about exploring those inner issues than any sexual indulgences. And it can be a healthy way to release those forces within you.

Of course, just as you must learn to trust yourself, you must learn to trust your lover. This is not something you will do easily. You don’t make the trip to trust without a great deal of personal struggle. It’s that fear of vulnerability again. Once you have a sense of security, however, you are a passionate and devoted lover. Also, once you have it, it’s something you’ll never take for granted.

Moon In Sagittarius

Your Light Side

In this position, the moon begins to twinkle. Sagittarius is the sign of far-reaching vision and optimism. The moon’s sour tendencies are mitigated by the Sagittarian’s sunny outlook. You have a saber-sharp intellect and find your curiosity knows few bounds. You know a little something about a wide range of topics. But you also have a few personal interests of which you develop an encyclopedic knowledge.

You have a drive to succeed that’s different from others with this moon sign. You don’t seek the security of dominance. You’re driven by a sense of adventure and an unwavering optimism. For this reason, you are a traveler. And the day trip is not your thing. Most likely, you take regular trips overseas seeking out new experiences and people.

Your Dark Side

Of course, blind optimism is not always a good thing. At times, you set goals simply for the thrill of the adventure. You don’t consider obstacles or practical impediments, because you’re more interested in that wild, exciting journey. In many cases, you pull off legendary schemes, simply because no one else would be foolish enough to try. Other times... well, you get the drift.

This dark side leads you to be reckless and irresponsible, especially with money. You’ll throw a lot away just to get wherever it is you want to go. And should you arrive at your destination, you find yourself left with a sense of disappointment because it’s not really what you were after. So you’re off to the next big adventure rather than consider what went wrong with the first one. The key to happiness for a lunar Sagittarian is to learn to reflect back and not always look forward.

Your Romantic Side

Strangely, lunar Sagittarians are not especially sexual. Despite this sign’s fiery nature, your intellectual qualities light up like a Christmas tree, while your physical passions are somewhat cooled. This doesn’t mean you’re uninterested in sex or worse. It is to say that, beyond its adventure, sex serves few other needs for you. So, you most likely will have many partners in your life.

If you do settle down with one guy, he has to be brilliant and unafraid to show it. He must love to travel, show little hesitation in the face of impulsiveness and make your time together one of unending thrills. While being a lunar Sagittarian has its shortcomings, many of the ego issues that come from other lunar positions are not a problem here. And so you can be a wonderful companion, who’s easy to get a long with and a lot of fun.

Moon in Capricorn

Your Light Side

In this position, the moon is said to be in its detriment. That means it’s in the position of the sign opposite its ruling sign. The moon is ruled by Cancer, which is a highly emotional and private sign with needs met within the emotional security of home and family.

Capricorn’s nature is geared toward achieving success in business and the solid reputation that goes with such success. This leads to some challenges when this nature expresses itself through the moon. Overcoming these challenges can produce great strengths, but it won’t always be easy.

Your greatest strength is in your emotional control. You are the model of reticence, always cool under pressure. This makes you a leader who’s dependable and determined. You have a focus that gives you incredible self-discipline to reach your goals. The world of business is full of lunar Capricorns who seem to breeze their way effortlessly to success. At least, that’s what they want you to think.

Your Dark Side

Buried beneath a jealously guarded privacy in the heart of a lunar Capricorn is a personal struggle. Often you find it difficult to discuss your feelings, so you don’t. This makes you sometimes come across as cold and unfeeling. You can divorce yourself from your emotions and make very rational judgments, but when this is taken too far, you can be insensitive.

Your self-discipline can easily turn to obsession when you allow your one-track mind to become too rigid. And this can also drive you away from the emotional entanglements of a relationship. As a result, you may feel a sense of loneliness. This is not to say you won’t find love. But your inability to express your deeper feelings can leave you feeling distant from others, especially a potential romantic partner.

Your Romantic Side

The key to finding love for a lunar Capricorn is to turn your determination to succeed in business toward overcoming your emotional barriers. It means that you will have to learn to trust others. And to do that, you must realize that your tears do not compromise your strength. You cannot learn to trust the love of another if you don’t trust your own emotions.

But when you do, you’ll be a great find for your lucky romantic partner. Your reliability translates into stability and loyalty within a relationship. The emotional weaknesses that lead others to undermine their own happiness are simply not your problem. Once you’ve found a partner you can trust and depend on, together you will wrap each other in security.

Moon In Aquarius

Your Light Side

This is a great place for a moon to sit on your chart. Aquarius is a communicative sign that embraces the intellect, and in this way some of the rough craters on the moon’s surface are smoothed out and you’re a much more rounded person. Your talent for considering your feelings in a logical light can temper your emotions.

You also have a visionary outlook colored by idealism. Other moon positions have idealism, but your reasoned thinking keeps these ideals from going to extremes. As such, you’re not one to become obsessed with a single intellectual pursuit, and so you tend to have knowledge about a broad range of ideas and opinions. And this makes you a brilliant conversationalist.

With a moon in this sign, you are likely a highly social person. You have numerous friendships with a wide range of personality types, because your attention is drawn to the new and different. So, many of these friends are likely to be quirky types with their own rhythms, which is the main thing you have in common with them.

Your Dark Side

Your tendency toward the platonic is one extreme you don’t shy away from. You’re more likely to focus on the intellectual facets of relationships than the emotional ones. This can result in a hyper-impersonal attitude toward people. You aren’t necessarily indifferent to the feelings of others; you simply don’t become involved enough to become aware of them.

So, you may find yourself blessed with more acquaintances than you know what to do with. But the deeper, intimate relationships—romantic or otherwise—can suffer because of your need for intellectual satisfaction. Just as you can’t indulge a topic too deeply, you can’t indulge a person too deeply. The deeper you get, the less new they become. So, you’re off in search of the unordinary, and the previous friendship goes no deeper.

Your Romantic Side

The right partner for you is one who can accept that you’re the best-friend-lover type. You have your own life, your own thing, and he needs to do the same. Jealous, possessive men looking for constant doting and devotion are going to be sadly disappointed.

This isn’t to say you can’t be romantic. But the candlelight dinner, flowers and box of chocolates might work once, maybe twice. But after that, he’s going to have to show some creativity. He’s got to take you where you’ve never been to see what you’ve never seen. And failing that, he’s got to accept that you’ll be gone all day in search of it yourself.

It’s no different in bed. Chances are you will have many lovers before you settle down to one man. And here you need just as much new territory to explore. What satisfied you last night will be old news tonight. There must be something new waiting for you every time. If not, you’ll be off in search of something to quench that everlasting thirst.

Moon In Pisces

Your Light Side

Here in Pisces, the moon experiences its final incarnation. In this position, your emotional side comes to the end of the cycle in final impressions. The lunar Piscean is highly sensitive to the feelings of others, and you exhibit a high degree of compassion. You find that people open up to you easily and recognize you as a skilled listener.

Well tuned to the inner emotional world, you have good intuition. This intuition gives you a dreamy creativity. In some cases, your insight can lead you to wise revelations or psychic abilities. At the very least, you have a strong perception of the emotional needs of those around you, and this gives you a warm-hearted nature that many appreciate.

Your Dark Side

On the other hand, that hypersensitivity and impressionable nature can lead to escapist tendencies. This is where the end of the cycle can become a sorrowful self-undoing. You hurt quite easily and may seek comfort in your intense imagination. In turn, the real healing that comes with facing conflict head-on never happens.

You also tend to be very indecisive, which can undermine your ability to pursue a course of action. Forced into a situation where you have to make a decision, you will often turn to those who appear more incisive, simply for the comfort of not having to make the decision yourself. And you may not stop to consider whether these people are acting with wisdom or in your best interest.

Your Romantic Side

Romantic love is very important to the lunar Piscean. Blessed with a warm heart, you can make an ideal partner, one in for the long haul. But relationships can become a source of the self-undoing when you turn to love as a source of escapism. You may seek to fall in love with someone less for who they are but more for the euphoria of falling in love. This can lead to a long series of dependencies on one lover after another.

Should you avoid that trap, however, your compassion makes you an ideal partner for a man who can balance his confidence and sensitivity. A confident partner can fill your need to have someone in your corner, someone to lean on when you need to, as is often the case with lunar Pisceans. But if he’s too assertive and domineering, his personality may swallow you whole.

The happiest lunar Piscean is the one who has learned to love herself. It’s not an easy thing for you to do, but if you can learn to be perfectly content with no lover at all, then you’ll have an easier time avoiding love addiction. And then when the right one comes along, you’ll fall happily in love for all the right reasons.

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